Potty Training Basics

Potty Training Basics

I swear time gets rolling faster and faster! I blinked, and all of the sudden my ‘baby’ has undies in his drawer and his own potty in the bathroom. Potty training hasn’t necessarily happened in full-force around here, but it’s just around the corner and I am certainly weirded out by the speed of life right now. In my beginnings of potty training, I’ve read and researched quite a bit. Here is some of what I’ve learned so far!

When to begin

I always hated when I was told to let my child take the lead or when I heard the all-too-common, “you’ll know when they’re ready”. Why can’t it all be spelled out for me exactly? I wish there was a precise chart with very specific directions that came with each child! This phrase was said to me by pediatricians, friends, and family during many transitional phases: when to stop breastfeeding, when to introduce certain solid foods, when to transition to a big-kid bed, and now, yet again, when to start potty training. The good news is everybody was right. As time goes on, and the more I experimented, I truly did come to realize that my kid would take the lead and let me know, in one way or another, when they were ready for certain changes to take place. In fact, when asked for advice, I often find myself telling friends or family members that very thing, “you’ll know when they’re ready!” So the easy answer to the when of potty training is to pay attention to cues and signs given and to let the child take the lead. Some children are ready as early as eighteen months, where others take their time and aren’t ready until well after they’re three. Studies have shown that boys take a little bit longer to start than girls. This is often because boys typically have a higher activity level and aren’t as interested in taking breaks to go potty. BabyCenter has broken down a toddler’s readiness into three categories: physically ready, behaviorally ready, and cognitively ready. Check out their potty training readiness checklist to get some good insight for when toddlers are ready for this new step!

Helpful accessories

Not too many things are needed when it comes to potty training accessories, but there are definitely a few helpful items to have on hand. Underwear is a good place to start; picking fun colored or character themed undies is the easiest way to get kiddos excited about this change. Pull-ups are good to have too, especially for bedtime! Depending on parents’ preference and, of course, the child’s preference, there are a few different options for potty use. A separate, small potty is perfect for kids who are a little more timid to the big toilet or someone who needs a little more excitement involved. Or there’s the option of using a separate training seat to put on top of the toilet seat. This is conducive to a smooth transition to the big toilet, yet still personalized to a small child to ease any fears. Also, there’s always the choice to not use any special equipment, and just have the child sit on the big toilet to begin with! This is especially nice because there isn’t a need for transition later and it makes it easy to help kids in public or at a friend’s house.

The things I would suggest are some type of reward or prize for different accomplishments. This may start out as a treat or small toy every time the child uses the potty without an accident and become more and more spread out until it’s an entire day with no accidents. Later, you can transition to a reward when dry at night, or dry for an entire week. Different motivators can have a marvelous effect on kids and truly help the potty training process along!


This is the big one, for me at least! My little boy was excited, interested, and mostly willing at the age of eighteen months. We bought him his own potty and gave it a bit of a go before I ended up pregnant and way too sick to deal with potty messes and high-energy potty runs every so often! So we gave it a rest for a few months and have since half-heartedly picked it back up but he hasn’t seemed too interested in these past few weeks. So now we’re playing the waiting game and keeping our eyes out for signs when he’s more interested! In my lackadaisical attempts at potty training my now two year old, I have learned a few things. Number one is that my attitude is just as important, if not more important than his attitude! It’s a huge commitment to take on! And yes, I’m nine months pregnant, but pregnant or not, it is a tiring process! Lots of repetition, over enthusiasm, and clothing changes are involved and it makes for a few long days! Another important thing to keep in mind is to avoid introduction to potty training around other large events. So basically, avoid potty training if school has just begun, a bed or room arrangement has been made, or (hence the reason I’m only half-heartedly in it right now), a new addition to the family has come. There’s enough going on already without over stimulating kids or expecting too much out of them too soon. There are several different methods out there to try depending on your tastes or your child's temperament. Two quick reads I appreciated were 6 Potty Training Methods and 7 Do's and Don'ts of Potty Training. I recommend taking a look at these to further educate and soothe some worries you may have!

Whether you haven’t yet begun, have just started, or are well on your way to a newly potty trained kiddo, good luck in your potty training quest! Pretty soon, like most parenting adventures, this will all be a distant memory.

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so when my daughter kaera hit 2 years old i was like okay im done with the diapers so i got the froggy potty training urinal for her to teach her how to stand up to pee and i got a potty chair so i tought her that its okay to pee standing up so how i first introduced her to it i first told her what it was then i made sure we both had full bladders and so i peed in it first tonlike teach her how to do it then i helped her pee in it and then teaching her how to stand up to pee incase of a situation were she woudl have to went smoothly


When I needed help with potty training I’ve searched the internet and I’ve found “How to make your child love going potty” by Susan Urban. It helped my with my older daughter and I thought we’ll never get rid of diapers. I am definitely going to follow the guide again with my little boy.

The guide is short so I’ve read it in like no time at all. The author seems to know what she is doing and her method is easy and my daughter loved it. I am not sure but you can also find it on Amazon.


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